Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Society and the Single Girl On Doing Whatever You Want

It seems like society and everyone in the world we live in likes to put labels on well, just about everything. These include but are not limited to: gender, relationship, sexual history and even people without getting a chance to even get to know them. (i.e. calling someone names such as "slut", "virgin," and "dyke."
Label cans, not people.
I've read somewhere in a magazine about a woman who was ashamed to tell the guy she was seeing that she was a virgin. Yet, I've also read about people who have judged others based on their sexual history or clothing. If you do it or don't do, either way you can't win. You can't be too innocent but you also can't be too promiscuous. So, what does that mean exactly?
I'll tell you what it means exactly. Do whatever the hell you want and don't care about what others may think about you.
I'm going to get all personal here and reveal I'm in fact a virgin. While I will keep my experiences with men private on my blog, I do have no shame in revealing that. I am a virgin simply because I choose so. I haven't felt ready to have sex, so I am not going to until I feel like I'm ready. I could wake up tomorrow and decide I am. I'm not, but at the end of the day it's my decision to make. When I'm ready, I will do it. Having a ring on my finger or if someone justifies having it isn't going to go into in my decision.
So listen up if you've had sex, never had sex or are thinking about having sex. No matter what you do, you do you. At the end of the day, everything you do is just that-up to you.
The funny thing about our culture is there will always be someone who will always have something to say about whatever you're doing. There's always going to be someone to critique you, and there will always be someone to make you feel bad about your decisions. Whether you are Jill Duggar or Kim Kardashian, people are going to talk about you.
The key in life is to blast Taylor Swift while doing whatever the hell you want. 


  1. "The key in life is to blast Taylor Swift while doing whatever the hell you want. " XD Really though. It's impossible to satisfy everyone. You can really only completely satifsy one person, and I think it's best to make that person yourself.

    1. Lol i agree! :) thank you so much for the comment.

  2. Great post! I couldn't agree more!